Why Don't You Just Grow Up? Self-Image Through a K-Pop Lens
With the rise of multiculturalism and global connectedness, cultural exchanges shape how we see ourselves. Whether through politics, social movements, or entertainment, exposure to different cultures informs our personalities and self-image. As a journalist specializing in Korean media, I often reflect on how K-pop and East Asian culture have influenced how I perceive myself.
Growing up in a culturally diverse family, it never crossed my mind how many people remain confined within their race, culture, or religion. Living just outside of Boston in a community that encouraged cultural exchange, I experienced diversity firsthand—from dancing bachata at my Sweet Sixteen to grabbing hot dogs at a Chinese bakery after school. Over time, I realized how much multiculturalism had shaped my personality and lifestyle. And with the global acceptance of Korean media, there have been countless moments that influenced who I am today.
As a teenager, I was emotionally driven, and something just clicked when I saw f(x) debut. Their bright, experimental style and sound resonated with me like nothing had before. More than their visuals, it was a feeling—bold, confident, fun, and unapologetically themselves. For the first time, I saw a reflection of the energy I wanted to embody.
I knew how I wanted to feel, but how could I make that a reality? I went straight to the source. Remember the show K-Beauty with model Irene? It introduced me to Korean beauty, style, and lifestyle trends. Then came the rise of K-pop Random Play Dance in South Korea, where people worldwide learned their favorite choreographies. Even when others called it weird, nerdy, or cringe, I kept going. Being involved in the K-pop scene and underground Korean hip-hop community led me to meet some of my favorite artists, promote talents before they blew up (like Mirani and Jaymin), and even take a dance class with 1Million’s Lia Kim—an unforgettable highlight of my life.
Embracing different cultures broadens your horizons and helps reveal your true passions. Through K-pop and multicultural influences, you can unlock a deeper sense of self and purpose. For me, K-pop wasn’t just entertainment—it was a gateway to self-discovery, confidence, and an expanded worldview. So when the world tries to tell you to grow up...why don't you use it to fuel your glow-up?
